Mindset #3: Be Authentic
As soon as you stop shaming yourself for being an introvert and you remove that label from your perception all together, something magical will happen.
In the beginning I claimed that girls are not actually attracted to a loud obnoxious alpha male. Here is why: They don’t care about what exactly that behavior is, they care about what it says about you.
Unfortunately, extraversion is linked to authenticity in our culture. We think that everyone who expresses themselves loudly and boldly is also conveying the truth.
Therefore, whenever a man has that kind of outgoing personality, we automatically ascribe him more value than other guys. That’s just how it is, so you better come to terms with it. Continue reading