Who, btw, claims it is the kind that is safest of intercourse you’ll have.
Few things in life are because misinterpreted as BDSM. The intercourse training gets a negative rap as the one that’s physically or mentally harmful, the one that just survivors of punishment embrace, and something that is abnormally kinky. But it is really none of these things.
At its most elementary, BDSM is an umbrella term for three groups: bondage and control, dominance and distribution, and sadism and masochism (more information on those who work in moment). They could each sound frightening in their own personal right, but you can have, says Holly Richmond, PhD, a somatic psychologist and certified sex therapist because they rely on a judgement-free zone where communication about your desires and boundaries come first, BDSM can actually be the safest (and most fun) kind of sex. Continue reading